Heat oil in large skillet or wok at high heat 3 to 4 minutes.
Add cabbage, bell pepper, and onion, and stir-fry 7 to 10 minutes or until crisp-tender or to desired degree of doneness. Stir in cilantro and remaining ingredients.
Spicy Cabbage Stir-fry: Stir in 3 tablespoons jalapeo jelly with cabbage, bell pepper, and onion. Proceed as directed.